Have you talked to your wife about what she will do with the info? Does she want to talk to them or "just" look? How would she feel if you started looking in the past for exes as well? Curiosity is one thing. But getting back in touch is a whole other bag of crap-apples. I absolutely agree with Auntie Cindy, WHO cares about the people of your past?
Reply to this Question Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A female reader, Honeypie +, writes (17 June 2014): I agree with Auntie Cindy (as usual) He isn't that keen on dating you. And what he wants is sex on a platter. When it's CONVENIENT for him. I'd skip this guy.
Auntie BB has given you some good financial advice. But make sure you get away from him for the time being, if you can't get him to move out fr legal reasons stay with relatives friends if possible. Let him see what he's losing because if he carries on like this he's asking to lose you. His behaviour is unacceptable.
A female reader, Auntie Jez +, writes (24 February 2009): Hi Honey I dont think that he will be that bothered as men dont tend to be that into anniversaries unless it is an important one. Dont worry he probably is not thinking about it - he is probably just thinking how lucky he is to be going out with you!!!